30 Ways To Meet New People (Best Ways To Meet New Friends)
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You can find book clubs through your local bookstore, online, or through Meetup. If you don't find the right fit for you, start your own club and invite other members to join. There are so many fun opportunities for volunteering with large groups of people where you might find your tribe.
Volunteer in areas that are meaningful and interesting to you. You can volunteer as a coach, for a cultural event, or for a local art show. Whatever kind of group activity interests you, you'll find it at MeetUp. Scroll through the various events in your city to find something that lights your fire, or type in your interest and see what's available.
I've found book clubs, networking groups, and social groups through MeetUp. Talk to your neighbors. Sometimes the people we're looking to meet are in our own backyards. Have you reached out to your neighbors lately? If you see your neighbor working in the yard, walk over and offer to help.
Or make a little extra soup or an extra dozen cookies and walk them to the family down the street. By extending yourself just a little, you might meet some wonderful new friends within a short walk of your home. Wherever you happen to be — in line at the post office, at the grocery store, or at a concert, start a conversation with someone around you. Have a few conversation starters handy so you always have something to say to kick off a conversation.
Yes, this might be uncomfortable at first, but if the other person is friendly and responsive, it might be the beginning of an interesting connection. Ron and I have a beautiful white collie named Scotch. He's unusual because he's white collies are usually black and tanand he really is a handsome guy.
When we take him on a walk, we get stopped by nearly everyone we pass. Taking your dog for a walk gives new people a reason to stop and talk to you. Other dogs will be naturally curious and drag their owners over to say hello in doggie language. If there's a dog park in your community, take a ball or frisbee and have an outing with your pet. The odds are good you'll meet people that are fellow dog lovers.
Sit at community tables. Find restaurants that have community dinner tables or bar tables. Rather than isolating yourself at a two-top, sit at the community table and meet new people seated nearby. Reach out on Facebook or other social media.
I reached out to a few and have met up for coffee. Through Facebook, you may discover some old friends or acquaintances that you didn't know lived nearby. Host your own casual dinner party or open house and invite your neighbors, people from work, or acquaintances you've bumped into along the way.
Invite them to bring a friend along so you expand your potential circle of new connections. You don't have to do anything elaborate. Make a pot of soup or order a few pizzas. The point is to simply bring people together and expand your circles.
Find a business association. Are there groups or associations related to your career? Research local business events and attend them so you can network professionally and personally. Go to a cultural event. Become an annual member of the symphony, local theater, or ballet. Attend the performances as well as the fundraising and member events. Strike up conversations with other attendees who are there because they appreciate the arts just like you. If you prefer visual art, visit your local galleries, talk with the owners or managers, and discuss the art with other guests.
One of the best ways to meet people is in a class at the gym. But if classes aren't your thing, spend time in the weight room when it's busy so you can converse with other gym rats. If there's a cafe or juice bar at your gym, hang out for a bit after your workout and connect with other members. If you have a couple of friends or acquaintances who have a larger circle of friends, ask them to introduce you to new people.
If you've moved to a new city like I have, maybe your existing friends know people in your new city. Ask them to make an email connection and then follow up yourself to suggest a get-together. Participate in Toastmasters or another speaking club.
Public speaking isn't fun for most people, but when you're thrown in a setting where everyone shares the same fears and learning curve, it can quickly break the ice.
Speaking clubs not only give you the confidence to make presentations, but they also give you the chance to meet a variety of new and interesting people. Go on a wine or beer tour. I live in a city with dozens of local breweries, and brew tours are common occurrences here. If you have wineries nearby or even restaurants that offer wine tastings, join in the fun and meet other connoisseurs.
Beer, wine, and socializing always seem to pair well together. Take a dance class. Ballroom dancing is a great way to get up close and personal with potential new friends or romantic partners. But you don't have to stick with ballroom dance.
Take a jazz class, Zumba, or Salsa dancing.
It's great exercise, and you'll meet fun people who enjoy kicking up their heels. Find a church or religious community. If you're a spiritual person or have a strong faith, your church, synagogue or other religious community is the perfect place to meet supportive, like-minded friends.
Go to seminars, book signings, or speaking events. Look in your local community guide to see what happenings and events are coming up in your area. Attend some of these events and try to sit next to someone who might be looking for a new friend too. Hang out at a jazz or music club.
Do you enjoy jazz or some other music genre that works well in a smaller venue and allows for conversation? Find a cool, low key club where you can listen to great music and start up an interesting conversation. Take your book or computer to a coffee house. When I start to feel house-bound working from home, I go to a local Starbucks or indie coffee house to work. You can form great friendships this way, plus connect with people from overseas.
Discussion forums, chat rooms, or online social networks like Facebook can be a great place to meet new friends.
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Do remember a few online safety tips: On social networking sites, keep your profile as private as possible. Only befriend people known to you you can chat with new people without allowing full access to your profile. Never arrange to meet anyone you met online unless someone goes with you and you meet in a public place.
People you contact online are not always who they seem. Check cyberbullying for more.
Meeting someone for the first time Try not to judge based on first impressions. They might be having a really bad day or be feeling unwell. Building your self-esteem and going easy on yourself can often calm your nerves. Opening yourself up to people can make them feel more comfortable and more likely to be friendly in response.
Try not to get too personal. From this starting point, you can find more things to talk about. Listen to their answers and ask follow up questions. Tips on remembering names include: Let us know what you think How and where do you meet new people?